How Marriage Equality is Changing Dating

Imagine  a world where they told men and women to separate. Where they felt it was better for the protection and benefit of mankind if men and women lived in separate communities. What if they created laws forbidding men and women from even socializing unless it was in mandated government facilities for reproduction ONLY? What if, dating, intimacy (between the sexes) , and all types of things were criminalized based upon some past statistic of date rape, domestic abuse, divorce ratings? What do you think people would start doing? Do you think they would have sex in dark and dank places just to fulfill their urges? Who they sneak around corners and create secret clubs to socialize? OF COURSE THEY WOULD!

(you see how crazy people went over prohibition of alcohol and present questioning of marijauna)

Do you think those that were caught doing such acts would be punished by their personal community groups? This type of reality seems far-fetched and something built for fiction but that’s exactly what homosexual couples have been and some still go through.

Marriage equality seems to be changed what gay men in particular consider acceptable. Let’s be honest, lesbianism seems to be way more acceptable in America than two gay men ( however, lesbians have their own set of hurdles to overcome) . But for so many years two men who love each other can barely hold hands with out somebody accusing them of throwing their homosexuality down their throats. In reality, if I were to throw it down your throat I would just make your husband suck my.

well let’s just move on….

I believe marriage equality is changing the mentality of not only heterosexual people but also homosexual people on what’s actually possible in relationships. If you enter a relationship hopeless… most likely it will never go beyond sex. Now, gay men…more so younger gay men can envision a future with a partner (family) . I see now more guys asking more long-term questions besides how long is my d…

well let’s just move on…

I am hopeful for the future in America. The world is changing. We are living in a time where you can live your truth and still live along side with people who may live a different truth. Hey, but that’s okay. Gone are the days of witch burnings…I hope. I can be horribly optimistic at times. But for the men who are sexuality attracted to men, I am hopeful they finally … so many will find peace of mind of being who they are… and loving and living with who they want to be with and creating something… because that’s what being a man

is all about.

2 thoughts on “How Marriage Equality is Changing Dating

  1. Definitely a mind-opening essay, my blogging buddy! Great job! Thank you for posting this! Much love and naked hugs, buddy! 🙂


  2. Nicely penned. Thought provoking indeed. Thanks for turning the tables around with the hetero alternative scenario. Most don’t venture to see it the other way around. Sad to think that most accept things the way they are just because that’s how it’s always been. Yes things are changing. For the better!


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